Day: September 21, 2017

Deep Thoughts…

  Deep thoughts by Jack Handy.   Ok, not really, but I do have something on my mind that I want to talk about: Survival sex.   As in women (and men) having sex with people they really would rather not have sex with…because they need something they can’t afford and lack family or support …

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Healing Can Be a Lifestyle

  Healing is not a destination, depending on one’s reaction to trauma. Mind you, NOT the amount of trauma. Healing can be a lifestyle. It can be something you have to dance with every day, or some days, or monthly and seasonally…   When something “comes up for me,” I remember something or I get triggered. I …

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Lessons from a Graveyard

  The best therapy workshop I ever did was from an organization called the Hoffman institute. You stay at one of their residential treatment facilities, they have them all over the country, and I believe out of the country…for seven days.   All you work on for seven days is the issues you have that were …

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Friendships

  Friendships, for women so it seems, is more complicated and confusing than for men. It is potentially the most emotionally rewarding or deeply painful of any other relationship a girl could have.   Maybe it’s just me, but no other relationship has made me question everything about myself…how I look, how I respond, did …

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